Are You Being Betrayed in the Digital Age? Watch Our New YouTube

Man covertly texting another woman on his smartphone while his unsuspecting wife lies in the background, illustrating the themes of infidelity, adultery, and cheating that Loving at Your Best Marriage and Couples Counseling addresses.

Here’s How to Navigate the Chaos of Digital Cheating in New York Navigating the turbulent waters of love and relationships is challenging, especially in New York— a city that never sleeps, and neither do its problems. With the evolution of the digital landscape, defining fidelity and betrayal has never been trickier. Ever asked, “Is this […]

Is My Parent a Narcissist? Transforming Relationships Through Schema Therapy

Statue of Liberty symbolizing the choice between narcissistic control and the freedom offered by schema therapy at Loving at Your Best Marriage and Couples Counseling.

Couples Therapy in NYC: Tales for Lovebirds If you and your partner are perched atop a Manhattan tower, squinting across the skyline and wondering, “Is my parent a narcissist or the Statue of Liberty?” this article is your compass. Brace yourself for a unique odyssey through the labyrinthine city of parental narcissism — what it […]

How to Stop the Blame Game in Your Relationship

A happy interracial couple sits on the couch, engaging in open and honest communication. The pregnant wife shares her thoughts and feelings, while the attentive husband listens empathetically. Their successful marriage therapy at Loving at Your Best Marriage and Couples Counseling has helped them overcome the blame game and strengthen their relationship.

Placing Blame in Relationships: A Persistent Problem By the time most couples seek therapy, we imagine the conflict has been brewing for one partner for a while. Rarely is it their first disagreement, and blame-based patterns have emerged. Partners often come to therapy feeling that the other person is to blame for all the problems […]

Loving at Arm’s Length? Unpacking an Avoidant Attachment Style

Are you married or in a serious relationship with someone who seems emotionally distant and tries to push you away? Or, do you ever feel like you don’t want to get too close to your partner or spouse, even though you love and care about them? If so, you may have had or been in a relationship with someone […]

Banishing the Toxic Critic in Your Mind

“If you think you’re enlightened, spend a week with your family.” ~ Ram Dass It was exciting to go away to college. You were leaving home to meet new people and do things that had nothing to do with your childhood. But you were an adult, so you were ready to leave families you loved […]

Rebuilding Intimacy in a Struggling Marriage

Intimacy is a crucial part of any marriage

Marriage is a challenging journey for many couples. Over time, couples may find themselves becoming distant and disconnected from one another. Intimacy in a relationship can be an important factor in keeping a marriage strong and healthy, but it can also be one of the first things to go when a couple is struggling. Rebuilding […]

The Impact of Trauma on Marriage and How Counseling Can Help

Relationship trauma often leads to feelings of pain, confusion, and mistrust.

Marriage can bring immense joy and satisfaction to life, but it can also be extremely challenging. When a trauma is experienced, it can have a profound impact on marriage. It can cause feelings of mistrust, insecurity, and disconnection between partners. Trauma can also lead to communication problems, anger, and difficulty with intimacy. If left unresolved, […]

Understanding the Importance of Boundaries in Marriage

Establishing boundaries in a marriage can be challenging.

Marriage is a beautiful thing, but it’s not always easy. One of the most important aspects of a healthy marriage is having clear boundaries. Without boundaries, we can easily become overwhelmed and resentful in our relationships. In this article, we’ll explore the importance of boundaries in marriage and how to establish them. What are Boundaries? […]

NYC Valentine’s Day Guide 2023: How To Treat The One You Love

Need some swoon-worthy ways to treat the love of your life this Valentine’s Day? The 2023 version of Valentine’s Day is coming up, and there’s no better place to celebrate with your partner or spouse than in New York City, the city that never sleeps! You can do many things to make this day special […]

Couple Goals for 2023: How to Make Your Love Blossom

One area that a lot of couples decide to work on relates to improving communication and your ability to resolve conflicts. When couples can effectively navigate challenging conversations and find solutions, they can build stronger, more fulfilling connections with each other. 

Follow some tips to help you improve your communication and conflict-resolution skills in 2023.