Mid-Life Ma’amhood: The New Midlife Crisis for Gen X Women
We all have an image of what a straight man going through a midlife crisis looks like. He is desperately trying to remember what it was like to be young as he drives his new sports car as fast as possible down the street. Shotgun might be a young woman he just acquired after deciding […]
Midlife Crisis in Men and Affairs: Is There a Link?
As men age, they often look back on the earlier years of their lives. Some feel a sense of fulfillment and relief. Some, however, feel some sort of wistfulness or even regret. Some feel lost, while some think they are missing out in life, and that they could be happier if they make drastic changes. These are the exact sentiments that often trigger a midlife crisis in men, and affairs often follow.
How to Rebuild Trust After Being Caught Cheating
If you’ve been caught cheating, knowing the next steps is vital to possibly mend your relationship. This article will help you navigate the immediate aftermath, understand the emotional impact, and offer practical strategies for rebuilding trust. From acknowledging the betrayal, ending the affair, to communication and seeking professional help, we’ll guide you through this challenging process. […]
Couples Therapy Goals in NYC
Couples Therapy Goals in New York: A Guide to Building a Stronger Relationship Relationships can be as sweet as a box of chocolates or as confusing as a Rubik’s cube. And sometimes, we need a little help to make sense of it all. Enter couples therapy at Loving at Your Best Marriage and Couples Counseling, […]
Active Listening: Mastering Love with the Gottman Method in NYC
https://youtu.be/u20KUlPXn5A Bright Lights, Big Love: The New York Love Revolution Ever felt your romantic entanglements were more tangled than headphones left in a pocket? Or that your love story has more unexpected twists than the plot of a daytime soap opera? Hold onto your pretzel (and your metro card); we’re about to embark on an […]
Unlock Couple Happiness: How Marriage Therapy Can Be The Key to Relationship Success
Marriages and love relationships face particular hurdles when living in New York City. The fast-paced lifestyle, long work hours, financial demands, and lack of space can strain marriages to the breaking point, much like trees bent to snapping. But, as a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist, I’d want to offer you some encouragement. For nearly […]
How to Find a Marriage Counselor in New York
Unlocking the Power of Integrated Couples Therapy for New Yorkers Are you and your partner seeking to reignite the spark in your marriage or relationship and build a stronger, more fulfilling connection? I’ll take you on a journey to find a well-qualified couples therapist in New York with the transformative power to breathe new life […]
Is a Ghost from the Past Haunting Your Marriage or Love Relationship?
Ghosts from the past can be unwelcome intruders in your relationship Are you or your partner experiencing symptoms in your relationship that could be related to a history of trauma? A common exchange between a trauma survivor and their partner might sound like this: Pat: What? Are you serious? I just came up and gave […]
Satisfying Love Relationships: How to Build a Secure Attachment
Attachment theory is a psychological model that describes how people develop emotional attachments to others. For example, when you feel protected, seen, and supported by your partner, you have a secure attachment. How we connect with our partners is part of what helps us feel satisfied in our marriages and love relationships. What is secure […]
Walking on Eggshells? The Disorganized Attachment Style
What is a disorganized attachment style? How does it start? What can you and your partner or spouse do in your marriage or love relationship to heal and create a more satisfying relationship so that neither of you feel that you have to “walk on eggshells” around each other? First, we need to be compassionate […]
