Does Couples’ Counseling Work? The Pros and Cons That Will Surprise You
All married couples go through a rough patch. Whether it’s serious or not, it is important to address the problem quickly. Undergoing couples counseling is one of the solutions available for couples that require professional help or intervention in their marriage. If you’re curious about how effective this method is, you’ve come to the right place. Take a look at the pros and cons of marriage counseling and what you can do to make it work.
10 Signs You’re in a One-Sided Relationship
We’ll go over ten signs that you may be in a one-sided relationship, including major themes that are related to this one-sidedness that are “lifetraps,” or chronic patterns of schemas that you may have experienced in your significant relationships. With some work, you can thoroughly address the problem(s), especially with the help of one of our marriage therapists in NY at Loving at Your Best, or to get help getting out of the toxic relationship dynamic.
How to Remain Calm When Your Spouse Says Hurtful Things
The words landed like a punch to the chest. You were standing in your kitchen after a long day at work. The conversation started about something minor. Maybe it was the dishes. Maybe it was a scheduling mix-up with the kids. And then your spouse said something that stopped you cold. Not a raised voice. […]
The Different Types of Affairs That Lead to Divorce
Understanding the Types of Affairs That Lead to Divorce She found the receipts on a Tuesday. Three hotel charges in a city he had never mentioned visiting. By Wednesday, she had rebuilt every suspicious moment from the past two years. By Thursday, she could not remember what trust felt like. This is how discovery usually […]
10 Key Questions for a Cheating NY Spouse – The Truth
In nearly two decades of working with couples after infidelity, I have noticed something that surprises people. The couples who recover are not the ones who got the most answers. They are the ones who asked the right questions. Most people do the opposite. After discovering cheating, they interrogate. Demanding the full timeline. Cross-examining their […]
Loneliness and the Avoidant Attachment Style
Loving at Arm’s Length? Are you married or in a serious relationship with someone who seems emotionally distant and tries to push you away? Or, do you ever feel like you don’t want to get too close to your partner or spouse, even though you love and care about them? If so, you may have […]
Anxious Preoccupied Attachment: Entangled in Your Marriage?
Have you ever worried that your partner or spouse doesn’t love you enough? Do you feel that you can’t get close to them? Do you feel jealousy and fear of being abandoned in your marriage or love relationship? These are just a few signs of an anxious preoccupied attachment style. This is a relationship connection […]
Couple Goals for 2023: How to Make Your Love Blossom
One area that a lot of couples decide to work on relates to improving communication and your ability to resolve conflicts. When couples can effectively navigate challenging conversations and find solutions, they can build stronger, more fulfilling connections with each other.
Follow some tips to help you improve your communication and conflict-resolution skills in 2023.
NYC Valentine’s Day Guide 2023: How To Treat The One You Love
Need some swoon-worthy ways to treat the love of your life this Valentine’s Day? The 2023 version of Valentine’s Day is coming up, and there’s no better place to celebrate with your partner or spouse than in New York City, the city that never sleeps! You can do many things to make this day special […]
