Banishing the Toxic Critic in Your Mind

“If you think you’re enlightened, spend a week with your family.” ~ Ram Dass It was exciting to go away to college. You were leaving home to meet new people and do things that had nothing to do with your childhood. But you were an adult, so you were ready to leave families you loved […]

How to Stop the Blame Game in Your Relationship

A happy interracial couple sits on the couch, engaging in open and honest communication. The pregnant wife shares her thoughts and feelings, while the attentive husband listens empathetically. Their successful marriage therapy at Loving at Your Best Marriage and Couples Counseling has helped them overcome the blame game and strengthen their relationship.

Placing Blame in Relationships: A Persistent Problem By the time most couples seek therapy, we imagine the conflict has been brewing for one partner for a while. Rarely is it their first disagreement, and blame-based patterns have emerged. Partners often come to therapy feeling that the other person is to blame for all the problems […]

Is My Parent a Narcissist? Transforming Relationships Through Schema Therapy

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Couples Therapy in NYC: Tales for Lovebirds If you and your partner are perched atop a Manhattan tower, squinting across the skyline and wondering, “Is my parent a narcissist or the Statue of Liberty?” this article is your compass. Brace yourself for a unique odyssey through the labyrinthine city of parental narcissism. Do you have […]

How Narcissists Make You Feel

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Understanding the Emotional Impact of Narcissists on Relationships in NYC In recent years, the term ‘narcissism’ has catapulted into the limelight, much like ‘yuppie’ did in the 80s and ‘slacker’ in the 90s, to describe a pervasive trait in today’s society. This is partly due to the prevalence of narcissistic personality traits observed in various […]

Top Signs Of A Selfish Husband: Why Is He Like That?

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A selfish husband can make even the strongest spouse feel invisible in their own marriage. But here’s what I’ve observed after 30 years of couples therapy: Most women initially blame themselves for their husband’s selfish behavior. “Maybe I’m too demanding.” “Perhaps I should be more understanding.” “If I just tried harder…” Sound familiar? Top Signs […]

Best Marriage Therapist NYC: What Science Says

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What Makes the Best Marriage Therapist in NYC? The Essence of Exceptional Marriage Therapy Best marriage therapist NYC? In a city teeming with diverse stories, unspoken dreams, and intricate relationship dynamics, the answer lies in a blend of empathy, cultural competency, tailored approaches, and continuous professional development. This blog series uncovers the transformative journeys of […]

Marriage Counseling New York: Strengthen Bonds

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Revitalize Your Relationship: Expert marriage counseling Solutions Are you and your partner struggling to connect, communicate, or navigate life’s challenges? You’re not alone. Many couples face these issues, and expert marriage counseling and couples therapy can be the key to revitalizing your relationship. Our therapists specialize in science-based approaches including the Gottman Method, EFT, and […]

How To Know When To Walk Away From A Sexless Marriage

When to Walk Away from a Sexless Marriage: Reclaiming Your Truth in New York A sophisticated guide for couples navigating the intricate landscape of love, desire, and authentic connection. It’s 11 p.m. in your Brooklyn brownstone. The city hums outside your windows. Sirens wail. Late-night conversations drift up from the street. The distant rumble of […]

The 3 Most Important Things You Should Do for Your Spouse

Can you imagine what your marriage would be like if you could do three things to reignite, recharge, and revitalize your marriage? Think of the connection and compassion and love that you could light within each other before slight cracks become breaks? Your marriage and spouse are worth taking on that kind of support and contribution.

I put together a list of the three most important things you should be doing for your spouse so that you can rebuild, repair, and reignite the passion that brought you together in your marriage — stronger than ever.

Understanding the Importance of Boundaries in Marriage

Establishing boundaries in a marriage can be challenging.

Marriage is a beautiful thing, but it’s not always easy. one key aspects of a healthy marriage is having clear boundaries. Without boundaries, we can easily become overwhelmed and resentful in our relationships. In this article, we’ll explore the importance of boundaries in marriage and how to establish them. What are Boundaries? Boundaries are the […]

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