How Far Back Can You Remember? Why Does It Matter So Much in Your Marriage or Relationship?
If you’ve been hurt in a past relationship, it can take many positive experiences to heal the old wounds. Perhaps someone who you counted on in the past betrayed you, or left you feeling alone when they didn’t understand what you were going through in a difficult time. Not surprisingly, your present partner or spouse […]
Relationship Advice for Men & Women in NYC
Have You Lost that “Loving” Feeling in Your Marriage or Relationship? How long does it take to shift from feeling that intoxicated “in-love” feeling to feeling “in-love” in a committed relationship? For most of us, after about six months, we start to shift into the love that is much more rewarding, what we call companionate […]
Is Your Marriage or Relationship Alive?
What Helps You and Your Partner or Spouse Fly Over Hurdles Together? Is Your Marriage or Relationship Alive? If you admire and respect your partner or spouse, even being in a bad place together won’t be enough to break you apart, your relationship is still very much alive. Even though you may be facing big […]
Are You in Danger of a Relationship Breaker?
Headed for Disaster? In your marriage or relationship, are you and your spouse or partner headed for separation or divorce? You may find it hopeful to know that thousands of couples have been studied over 30 years to help us predict with up to 94% accuracy if a marriage or relationship is headed for disaster. In this […]
One Key to Succeed at Having a Miserable Relationship
Who makes the decisions in your marriage or relationship? Do you honor and respect each others’ feelings and opinions? Do you or your partner or spouse feel more like a passenger than a driver? Especially with men, if they allow women to influence them, their relationships are much happier and much less likely to lead […]
Do You Still Find Each Others Quirks Cute?
Do You Still Find Each Others Quirks Cute? In the beginning of your marriage or relationship, did you celebrate the differences between you and your spouse? For instance, did you like that your partner or spouse had his or her own interests, opinions, views, friends, and career? If you’ve been in your marriage or relationship […]
The Day After Tragedy, Let Us Remember Kindness
Before you know what kindness really is you must lose things, feel the future dissolve in a moment like salt in a weakened broth. What you held in your hand, what you counted and carefully saved, all this must go so you know how desolate the landscape can be between the regions of kindness. How […]
4 Key Questions to Ask in Your Marriage or Love Relationship
A whole new science of love and connection has developed over the last two decades that helps 7 out of 10 distressed marriages or couples significantly repair their relationship, known as Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples, developed by Sue Johnson, author of “Hold Me Tight.” Love doesn’t have to be a mystery anymore, and is […]
What Does Memorial Day Mean for You in Your Marriage or Love Relationship?
When you think of Memorial Day, what does it mean for you, your marriage or love relationship, and your family? For many, we remember the men and women serving our country, and those who came before them. Many others think of backyard, terrace, or park bbq’s with all the topics, from meat sausages to vegetarian […]
Take Our Couples Quiz Now
How is your marriage or love relationship doing? Take our short 10 question quiz to get a sense of the strength of your bond now. It’s complimentary, and there’s not obligation. Simply click on the link, and you’ll be re-directed to our couples quiz. Answer each question (all 10 questions must be answered for the […]